Building Bridges of Support in the Face of Loss
Some organizations are born from vision. Others are born from heartbreak and the determination to turn grief into action.
Auntie Advocate, based in Norfolk, Virginia, is one of those organizations.
Founded by LaTonya Snow, Auntie Advocate exists to support families affected by life crises — especially those impacted by gun violence — by building bridges to resources, community support, and hope.
LaTonya’s journey into nonprofit work began with unimaginable loss. Her nephew, Xzavier Hill, was shot and killed by a Virginia State Police officer.
Before his death, Xzavier was already an advocate in his own right — eager to serve his community and participate in protests that called for change.
After his passing, grief turned into purpose.
“When he got killed, I had to start working,” LaTonya shared. “We were protesting, we were grieving, and I was asking myself how I could make a difference and support others.”
At first, she hesitated like many who feel the pull to serve but question whether they are ready.
But after beginning studies in social services and receiving encouragement from her mentor, LaTonya found the motivation to launch outreach programs throughout the Norfolk area.
Today, Auntie Advocate provides meaningful, hands-on support to families navigating crisis.
Their outreach includes:
• Mental health session outreach programs
• Free hygiene product distribution for individuals and families in need
• Emergency fundraising support on a case-by-case basis
• Community-based programs
• Seasonal initiatives like the Summer Snacks event, helping ensure children have access to nourishment and support during school breaks
What struck me most about Auntie Advocate is how deeply personal this work is. It’s not just about providing resources. It’s about standing beside families in moments when life feels overwhelming.
Experiences like this remind me that many small nonprofits begin not with large budgets or formal plans, but with heart, resilience, and a deep connection to the community they serve.
We spent the day creating chalk messages of hope and love across the Norfolk, VA area while doing a bit of public fundraising
As I reflect on my 52 Weeks of Charity journey, organizations like Auntie Advocate stand out as powerful reminders that advocacy often begins with one person deciding that grief will not have the final word.
If you are local to Norfolk, Virginia, or looking for ways to support grassroots organizations making a real difference, Auntie Advocate is one worth knowing about.
Because sometimes the strongest bridges are built by those who understand exactly why they are needed.
